17.
To sum up, the matter stands thus: the good man will be easy-going in striking a balance; he will allow too much to be set against his credit.
He will be unwilling to pay a benefit by balancing the injury against it.
The side towards which he will lean, the tendency which he will exhibit, is the desire to be under obligations for the favour, and the desire to make return therefor.
For anyone who receives a benefit more gladly than he repays it is mistaken.
By as much as he who pays is more light-hearted than he who borrows, by so much ought he to be more joyful who unburdens himself of the greatest debt—a benefit received—than he who incurs the greatest obligations.
Book: Moral Letters Vol II
Subtitle: Seneca's timeless letters of advice and wisdom.
Author: Seneca
Chapter: On benefits
Location: Chapter 81, Section 17
Content:
17.
To sum up, the matter stands thus: the good man will be easy-going in striking a balance; he will allow too much to be set against his credit.
He will be unwilling to pay a benefit by balancing the injury against it.
The side towards which he will lean, the tendency which he will exhibit, is the desire to be under obligations for the favour, and the desire to make return therefor.
For anyone who receives a benefit more gladly than he repays it is mistaken.
By as much as he who pays is more light-hearted than he who borrows, by so much ought he to be more joyful who unburdens himself of the greatest debt—a benefit received—than he who incurs the greatest obligations.