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Moral Letters Vol I

Seneca

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On philosophy and friendship

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Book Subtitle: Seneca's timeless letters of advice and wisdom.

Book Description: Full of insight and wisdom, Seneca's letters are a Stoic treasure. They've influenced famous philosophers, leaders, and students over the centuries. Each letter can be read on its own. By reading this volume you'll absorb the thoughts of a thoughtful Stoic aimed at living well.

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There is the same difference between winning a new friend and having already won him, as there is between the farmer who sows and the farmer who reaps.

The philosopher Attalus used to say: “It is more pleasant to make than to keep a friend, as it is more pleasant to the artist to paint than to have finished painting.” When one is busy and absorbed in one’s work, the very absorption affords great delight; but when one has withdrawn one’s hand from the completed masterpiece, the pleasure is not so keen.

Henceforth it is the fruits of his art that he enjoys; it was the art itself that he enjoyed while he was painting.

In the case of our children, their young manhood yields the more abundant fruits, but their infancy was sweeter.