On grief for lost friends
63:1
Book Subtitle: Seneca's timeless letters of advice and wisdom.
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1.
I am grieved to hear that your friend Flaccus is dead, but I would not have you sorrow more than is fitting.
That you should not mourn at all I shall hardly dare to insist; and yet I know that it is the better way.
But what man will ever be so blessed with that ideal steadfastness of soul, unless he has already risen far above the reach of Fortune?
Even such a man will be stung by an event like this, but it will be only a sting.
We, however, may be forgiven for bursting into tears, if only our tears have not flowed to excess, and if we have checked them by our own efforts.
Let not the eyes be dry when we have lost a friend, nor let them overflow.
We may weep, but we must not wail.
Book: Moral Letters Vol I
Subtitle: Seneca's timeless letters of advice and wisdom.
Author: Seneca
Chapter: On grief for lost friends
Location: Chapter 63, Section 1
Content:
1.
I am grieved to hear that your friend Flaccus is dead, but I would not have you sorrow more than is fitting.
That you should not mourn at all I shall hardly dare to insist; and yet I know that it is the better way.
But what man will ever be so blessed with that ideal steadfastness of soul, unless he has already risen far above the reach of Fortune?
Even such a man will be stung by an event like this, but it will be only a sting.
We, however, may be forgiven for bursting into tears, if only our tears have not flowed to excess, and if we have checked them by our own efforts.
Let not the eyes be dry when we have lost a friend, nor let them overflow.
We may weep, but we must not wail.