20. Remember, that not he who gives ill language or a blow insults, but the principle which represents these things as insulting.
When, therefore, anyone provokes you, be assured that it is your own opinion which provokes you.
Try, therefore, in the first place, not to be hurried away with the appearance.
For if you once gain time and respite, you will more easily command yourself.
Book: Handbook
Subtitle: The ancient summary of Epictetus's teachings and philosophy
Author: Epictetus
Chapter: Chapter Twenty (Chapter 20 of 53)
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20. Remember, that not he who gives ill language or a blow insults, but the principle which represents these things as insulting.
When, therefore, anyone provokes you, be assured that it is your own opinion which provokes you.
Try, therefore, in the first place, not to be hurried away with the appearance.
For if you once gain time and respite, you will more easily command yourself.